Friday, August 24, 2007

Mark's 4 month check-up

Well, as you can imagine, Mark is off the charts still in his height and weight! As of this morning he is officially 27.75 inches long and weighs 19 pounds, 10 ounces…and yes the doctor did remind me AGAIN that he doesn’t have to finish every bottle! Everything is going well though. His hernia around his belly button is almost gone, which his doctor told me is early…but great :) He is developmentally right where he should be. She said it might take him a little longer to roll over because of his size, but this is normal. He is showing signs on rolling over, but his cute rollie pollie thighs tend to get in the way and he can’t quite make it over just yet! It does bring smiles to my face as I watch him try though.

Within the next month we will have to move to his 3rd car seat! He outgrew his first one at 3 months, now he is about to outgrow his second and move to a rear facing one that he sits fairly straight up in. This will present its own set of challenges for mommy at the grocery store. Since he is not able to sit up yet, we will have to put him in his stroller to recline in and pull the grocery cart too! A new multitasking project! I am discovering that all of the skills I learned over the years working outside the home are being used in different ways inside the home. I knew God would use all those skills for His glory some how J

I must say, being at home with Mark has been even better than I imagined. Sure we have days when I wonder if I am doing things right, (and Mark wonders too!) but the joy that comes when he smiles and laughs is just too incredible for words. I have wanted to be a mom for so long, and in God’s perfect timing He gave us a son that was perfect for our family. God has allowed our lives to be filled with joy in the midst of unsettling times. Only a loving and gracious God can do that. I know that my stress level would be so much higher if it were just Troy and I. I know that sounds strange, but God has used this time to increase my faith and dependence on Him and Him alone. Deuteronomy 31:6 tells us “for the Lord our God is with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Psalm 145:13 says “The LORD is faithful to all his promises and loving toward all he has made.” The verse that God seems to wants us to dwell on this year is Philippians 4:6-7 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding, will guard your hears and your minds in Christ Jesus. Although it has not been an easy road, we have grown so much through these trials that it seems only right to thank Him for them. Where would we be without them? (Don’t get me wrong…we aren’t asking for more!) But he has worked out so many details for us that only HE could. We look back and see His work every step of the way. What an Awesome God we serve!

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Tummy Time



Mommy didn't give me a pillow
so I made my own!

I'm not a GIRL



I think my "hungry
caterpillar" outfit makes
me look like a girl!










A closer look!

Liking my swing



I like to sit forward
rather than back
while I swing!






I am using my toy to
rest my head. It's hard
work keeping myself
forward all the time!





What? I'm leaning back! I am!

Look into my eyes... how can you
not believe these eyes...

Squeezing into my Bumbo seat



My legs barely fit







I need to order that Thigh Master!

Friday, August 3, 2007

I can officially grab things!

GOT IT!


I have to get it before it gets me!

More Cute Photos

The outfit was so adorable I had to take pictures.
I know it is hard to tell, but he is 26.5 inches long already!


I love his smile!





He almost looks like he is posing :)
I was not trying to get him to put his hand in his pocket, but it sure looks cute!

Getting ready for a walk


We were getting ready to head out into the Arizona Sun before it got too hot (ha ha)

Thursday, August 2, 2007

No News is Good News

We contacted our attorney today and here's LaDonna's summary of the latest:

He said again, no news is good news for us. When he talked with American Adoptions yesterday they asked if Donovan may have thought we were setting up the blood test process. Mike said there is no way that he could think that based on his conversations with Donovan's attorney. Mike made it very clear to him that he was to pay for the blood test and contact us as soon as it was paid and we were able to make an appointment to take Mark in for the testing. He said that if we still have not heard anything in another month, then Mike will need to take action to clear up this issue in order for us to finalize the adoption. There are legal forms that would need to be filed with the court system that demonstrate no additional contact from Donovan. He wants to wait that next month because it only helps our case. He said that when he does file that paperwork, it may come to a fight...there are no guarantees that it won't; but our case is very strong and each day that goes by only helps our case. Mike said that the judge will give a small amount of stock in the fact that Donovan's attorney sent a letter to Mike, but it will be very little stock since that is the only thing he has done. Mike said that if we just can't tolerate this any longer then he would file the papers now, but it really helps our case if we wait. I told him that we will wait! We believe that God would not take Mark from us now as that is not what is best for him and we will hold out as long as necessary to help our case. He asked me to put it on the calendar to call him back in a month if we haven't heard anything from him and he will let us know exactly what we will need to do from there.

We will continue to hope and pray that God is and will continue to do what is best for all of us in this situation. Thank you all for your prayers.